Who knew there was a scale for sex versus hassle factor? After careful consideration talking with many many friends and colleagues over time, with a variety of experiences in this arena, I have been able to create this graph for your consideration. A brief explanation, should you need it: when in prison, you might get sexual advances but not necessarily welcome it. That's a very high level of hassle for you. When you don't want a relationship and decide to get a fuckbuddy, that could be your sweet spot. See the Paramore point. If you would like to make any changes, then please get in touch. Your experience is key.